Is it asking a lot? If it's just a matter of adjusting a config number from 30 to 45, then no, it's not. If it's more troublesome than that, or a time sink just finding where such a value might be hidden, then I've got no interest in wasting Admin's time with it.
I only asked because I ran into the block. It was trivial for me to reduce the pass phrase, but it's something I almost never have to do on other sites. Maybe my pass phrase was longer than usual - it didn't seem so to me, this is the first time I've had to count characters in years - but maybe every other site I've signed up to has a 30 character limit and I've always just slipped under it. I dunno; I've never needed to check.
most sites barely give half the characters we can have here already
That's a broad and sweeping statement. The only times I've hit a password length barrier before this, was when it was limited to something really small like a dozen characters or thereabouts. I haven't seen one like that in quite a while though. Most sites allow longer passwords nowadays - at least in my own experience.
I use passphrases, rather than passwords, because it's easy to come up with something unique and memorable for each site, which is also very hard to crack. I don't need to look up a password, use a password keeper, or recycle the same password for dozens of sites. Passphrases, by their nature, are going to be long; they're a growing trend.
30 charas is long enough to come up with a decent passphrase, but if I've hit the limit, then I'm sure there must be others who will too, so I thought it'd be the decent thing to bring it to Admin's attention and let him make the call.