Having looked at your village I have a tip for you, Join a decent village. (Zerohour's maybe?)
No one is going to join your village when you have no upgrades, and you aren't going to get any upgrades with only one other person there. You will end up spending months in a village with no upgrades if you try to start without at least five people.
Having many villages is a boon with the current Kaiju system, but each village takes a lot of time and frustration to reach tier 3. If you don't have the ability to hold on to villagers and grow rapidly you are wasting your time, and your villages time when they could all fit into one of our current blinged-up realms.
I recommend that you gather the following before you start again; r00t invader, backup invader, all phase drops/spirit themes, and three more people who play regularly.